Wednesday, October 22, 2008

STRONG BEYOND HIS YEARS (front page of the Gillette News Record 10/21/08)

George Strong IV stands at the end of the his team’s practice field at Crestview Park as the sun sets. Strong is Campbell County’s smallest junior football player, weighing in at 48 pounds. - Photos by News-Record Photo Editor Nathan Payne npayne@gillettenewsrecord.net

George Strong IV listens, buried under his teammates, while his coach talks to the team before their breakdown. Strong is the smallest junior football player in Campbell County but plays with the determination of a player twice his size. - Photos by News-Record Photo Editor Nathan Payne npayne@gillettenewsrecord.net


George Strong IV, No. 25, stands over a player he tackled during his team’s last game of the season. Strong is the smallest player in junior football in Campbell County but plays with the heart of the biggest players. - Photos by News-Record Photo Editor Nathan Payne npayne@gillettenewsrecord.net


At left, George Strong III talks to friends on the sideline by writing on a pad of paper. He is undergoing experimental treatment for brain tumors in Seattle and was able to attend his son’s game. - Photos by News-Record Photo Editor Nathan Payne npayne@gillettenewsrecord.net

Published: Tuesday, October 21, 2008 1:08 PM MDT
Story by News-Record Writer
Andy Chapman achapman@gillettenewsrecord.net

At 48 pounds and barely 4 feet tall, it’s hard to be taken seriously, even in the junior football program.
That’s George Strong IV.

He’s just like any other kid. He likes watching the Denver Broncos and quarterback Jay Cutler, his favorite player. He likes to read and take care of his four rabbits.

But George weighs less than most 9-year-olds, in fact, 97 percent of them weigh more than him.

He’s the smallest player in Gillette’s junior football program. All the third-graders are bigger than him. At equipment checkouts in the beginning of the year, they had trouble finding a helmet small enough for him.

His mom remembers when she found him in the kitchen with a jug of half-and-half, a mixture of milk and cream. He was drinking it to try to get bigger.

It hasn’t worked.Despite his size, he plays football. He loves the game. It’s a passion instilled in him by his father.

It’s more than a game. Through football, he’s learning to become a man. But he can’t figure it all out. A kid needs a dad to teach him and be by his side.

The other players can glance at the sidelines to get a thumbs up or a smile from approving fathers. George can’t do that.

George’s father isn’t there.

During the season, he finishes his homework, eats dinner and runs upstairs to get dressed for practice. Afterward, his mother, Carla, checks his work. Only after that will she drive him to practice.

After the hour-long session, it’s home again, and maybe a chance to talk to his dad via text messaging or e-mail.

His father, George III, has to use electronic means to talk to his family because he’s far away and too weak to speak out loud.

He was diagnosed with cancer a little more than a year ago. He’s undergoing experimental treatment to rid his body of three brain tumors. Doctors drilled holes in his skull and dropped in radiation seeds. He’s been all over the country for treatment, and is now in Seattle at a treatment center.

He’s made plans to come home several times, but medical complications forced him to stay in the hospital. The family only saw him twice during the summer.

Before the cancer, the family would play touch football games in the yard. George III didn’t play many sports in his high school days. But he’s loved the game for a long time, and he’s wanted his son to play football since he was born. Since the cancer, the games have all but stopped.

The younger George, however, hasn’t.

“He knows Daddy wants him to play football,” Carla says.

But even in his escape, playing football, he’s reminded of what he doesn’t have.

He’s always been what his mom calls a “fruits and vegetables” child. He does eat meat, but not much. The average weight of the third- or fourth-grade players in the Gillette league is 60-80 pounds, and some are more than 100 pounds, twice the size of George.

At this point, he’s used to it. Carla estimates he was 47 pounds in his third-grade year, just a one-pound difference from where he is today.

It’s practice day and George’s team, the Buccaneers, are working on tackling. The coaches line him up against a player that’s got 6 inches and a few pounds on him. Predictably, he gets the wrong end of the hit.

He gets up, and takes his place in the back of the line to do it all over again. This time, he comes at the other guy with a little more speed, a little more oomph, and drags him down to the turf.

The Bucs’ coach, Chad Eischeid, is quick to praise him for the effort, yelling “Good job, George!” afterward.

This isn’t pro football. At this level, the players get equal playing time. His season had mixed results, when he fumbled a few times and got hit hard.

But he’s one of the most well-liked players on the team. He’s one of the best tacklers, too. Every time he got somebody to the turf, the coaches would smile. He gave full effort every down for them, so they rewarded him with some running plays.

Eischeid likes the kid. He’s pulling for him. He never complained, never quit on a play and never gave the coaches a reason to think he didn’t want to be out there.

“He was always one to give it his all,” Eischeid said. “He’s got to have one of the biggest hearts around.”And he made his mark. He scored a touchdown, his first, in a practice scrimmage against another team on a 30-yard run. Carla, watching from the sidelines, mirrored his progress on the run every step of the way, screaming and jumping in excitement.

The actual game that weekend, however, wasn’t as successful. He completely whiffs on a touchdown-saving tackle. Later, he fumbles the handoff, one of many miscues on the day.

He scrambles out from under a pile of opposing players after a botched play left him with no running room. He adjusts his uniform, tightens his chin strap and runs back out there to play defense.

It’s what Dad wants. What he wants, too.

He trots onto the field in his red Buccaneers jersey and black cleats. The quarterback takes the snap and hands the ball to him. He hesitates for a moment, sees a crease in the blocking lanes and takes off, juking defenders.

Fifteen yards later, he’s tackled out of bounds. It’s a first down, and he trots back to the huddle, panting for breath. It didn’t win the game. It didn’t even help them score on the drive. But it matters.

George IV couldn’t sleep the night before his final game ��” or the night before that, or the one before that. His father flew into town on Thursday, and the excitement didn’t lend itself to sleep.
Thursday’s practice was the last one before the season finale. The younger George pleaded with his mom to let him go, because the players who didn’t show up wouldn’t get to play much on Saturday.

George III didn’t plan on going to see the final practice because he was so worn out.

“I just need to sleep,” he said, on the way from the airport.

But on the way past the park where the younger George practiced, he motioned for Carla to pull over. He wanted to be there and watch.

The thought of watching his son energized him. George III was up before anyone Saturday morning. He got dressed and rounded up the family and got them ready to go. He stood near the field before the game, watching his son’s warm-up activities. He paced the sidelines, trying to get the best view of the action.

Surrounded by friends and family, he wrote on a pad with a pen to communicate because he was too weak from treatment to talk out loud. But he always kept an eye on the field when George was playing.

After the younger George recovered a fumble, he got up with the ball and looked over the sideline. There was his father, giving him a thumbs-up.
It was the same story after every good play from George IV, four tackles and an eight-yard run. But even the mediocre and downright bad plays elicited a smile from him.

After the game, the son took his pads and jersey over to the storage shack. He walked slowly out on the field afterward and saw his family. He approached the group. The dad put his hand on his shoulder, and showed him the writing pad.

It was only four words.But it was enough: “I’m proud of you.”

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Happy Birthday Dad

















I miss you and think of you everyday.
As time passes, the heaviness eases; however, there are a few times each year where it returns.

ALLAN C. ANDRADE
10/21/1938 - 2/2/2006

Friday, October 17, 2008

A LITTLE NOSTALGIA FOR FRIDAY!

SPINNY BOY (HE NEVER DID JUMP)

LIFE IS 'BOUT A DREAM...

I WANNA BUST OUTTA HERE
(3 BOYS IN THE FALL)

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Matthew got MAD SKILLS!

Two nights ago we were sitting in the living room watching TV when Michael decided he could stump his little brother. He began writing words out on paper. Here's a list of the words Matthew read. He got every one except hydrogen and that was only because he put the emphasis on the wrong letter!

cubical
techno logic
pupil
massive
triplets
orphan
Mississippi
radioactive
vascular
aerodynamic
percent
Phoenix
knuckles
collective
igualmente (Spanish word for likewise or nice to meet you)
elastic
Iditarod
conjugate
xenon
stalking
vineyard
desperate
cuticle
hydrogen
flatulence
literature
particle
GENIUS....

Michael threw in that last word knowing he could NOT stump his little brother!

Monday, October 13, 2008

Basketball Boy





"Mom, I wanna play basketball. Can you pleeeeeeeeeeease sign me up??"

A Praying Mantis


Sunday, October 12, 2008

Homecoming Dance - Michael & Bekah





Mom & Matthew watch the Homecoming game...

The Wildcats played a great game. We did lose 22-20; however, we were losing most of the game, then made an amazing comeback to lead 20-19 until they scored 3 pts and then milked the clock until it was over.

It rained the last 5 minutes of the game which was nice.

Here are a few pics from the game. (note Matthew's attire).









Homecoming Parade...the funny part...

The sign on this lowrider truck says "D-Towns Finest 2009, 2010"
If you could see the license plate, you'd see it is a truck from Chihuahua, Mexico.

Friday, October 10, 2008

2008 Deming High Homecoming Parade






Yes, tonight is Homecoming...my baby's last one!

Here are some of the pictures from the parade... I bet they bring back memories for some of you - they did for me!
Michael is in the last picture on the Senior float. He's the one on the left in the football jersey and brown/tan cap pointing... Click the picture to see it larger.


Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Disappointed in humanity...

Read the story and then please take the poll...

I recently flew Southwest Airlines. It was only an hour and fifteen minute flight, but it was packed full. I was feeling good because I knew I would be one of the first 10 people on the plane. I had a business select ticket and my boarding number was A8. No one likes to get on last!

So when they started boarding, I was actually the 4th person on the plane and chose a window seat in the 3rd row. Perfect for me because I sleep on planes and this made me and my special sleepy pillow very happy. Two women sat next to me, neither of them large...which is great as noone overlaps. It was gonna be a good flight...

The flight attendant announced that it was going to be a totally full flight, so if a seat is in the middle even, you better take it. After it seemed everyone was on, another announcement...
"There is one seat left so we're going to wait just a minute and see if the passenger shows."

Not two minutes after that announcement, she gets on again and says, "Folks, we do have a passenger here now ready to board; however, he has special seating needs as he is on oxygen. Is there anyone willing to give up their seat?"

A lady in the very first row volunteered but was told no. They made another announcement... "It seems he needs a window seat, but not in the front row." Well...the plane got really quiet. No one said anything so the attendant says, "if someone would please move, we'll buy you a couple drinks"... still silence.

A lady in the same row as me but in the aisle on the opposite side calls the attendant and asks, "Why does he need special seating? Why didn't he pre-board??" Yes, she asked in her best "snotty voice". So i turned and looked around and after looking at many people rolling theirs eyes in disgust, raised my hand and volunteered to move.

As the older man with oxygen leaned against the wall to hold himself up stood in the front waiting, I felt very disheartened with people in general....

So I get my bag and start to walk to the back of the plane to find my new seat. The flight attendant says, "Thank you so much, we really appreciate it." A man on the opposite side of the plane just 3 rows behind my original seat says to me with a you're a dumb-ass for volunteering look on his face, "You know they only serve tap water back there..." I wanted to say something but all I did was look at him in disbelief and kept walking back. Another man 2 rows behind him says, "God bless you". I smiled at him. So I proceed to my new seat knowing it will be between two "overlappers".....and yes, I am so right. A very large man was in the window seat and a woman twice my size was in the aisle seat.

I sit the whole flight with my legs crossed at my ankles stretched straight out and my arms out on my lap because the man was overlapping under and over the armrest and neither were going to give up armrest access....

After the flight, the man in front of me turns around and hands me 7 drink coupons and says to me, "Thanks for moving, you probably saved us all a lot of time." I said no, thats OK, but he insisted I take them. I was thinking to myself...gosh, I surely didn't do it to save anyone any time.....

I felt kind of disappointed in people as I walked to my car in the parking lot (luckily in Tucson, the walk from gate to parking lot isn't too far). I sat there and pondered it a little bit before driving off....

I feel that kind of disappointment often recently. I guess I just expect people to care about and think of others around them more then it seems they do. I feel like people are in such a hurry these days that they don't even realize they are being jerks sometimes.

Craig told me once when I got angry while driving behind an old lady (yes sometimes I get minor road rage...lol).... "you know, that is someone elses Grandma Katy." I think about that comment often and it helps me be more conscious of whats happening around me and not just with me.

We all need to slow down. We are here not to see how rich we can get or race to see how much we can cram into one day but to enjoy each other and learn to love and appreciate those around us - even strangers.

Few things in life are better and more satisfying then knowing we were there when someone else needed us or that we helped make today better for someone without expecting something in return...

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Conversation with Cousin Ben


My sister Kris had this conversation with her 6 year old the other day...

Ben: "Mom, do animals get married?"
Kris: "No, only people do."
Ben: "Then how do they have babies?"
Kris: "Well, they do get married...but they don't have weddings."

Wow...what we have to go through to teach our children the all important moral values.
Someday Ben will know it's possible, yes, to not be married and have babies; but for now, I think this is the best answer for his young inquisitive and innocent precious mind.

Good job Kris!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

a very funny little boy...

THE TOOTER SHOOTER:



ALL AROUND THE CHICKEN COOP:

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

CHOCOLATE WOW

Tuesday evening, after Nathaniel's football game we went out to eat at Uno Chicago Grill. Dinner was good...and then the boys had dessert. Nathaniel ordered yummy deep dish cookie and enjoyed it immensely. Matthew ordered CHOCOLATE WOW! The description below is directly out of their menu... what follows was Matthews comment once his dessert was gone...

Uno's Menu:
CHOCOLATE WOW! Chocolate is to people what heaven is to Angels. A brownie crusted with chocolate Crunchies with a warm molten chocolate Center. Served with vanilla ice cream, Chocolate sauce and whipped cream.

Matthew's opinion (blurted out immediatly after eating it and still licking his lips):
"Thats not WOW!, that was WONDERFUL!"

Oh...he does keep us laghing! He is so funny...

Reading to Daddy